eyes.

“Why won’t you ever go to church with me?” she asked in her floral dress with her little kid all dolled up with a clip-on tie.
“I don’t believe in it all,” I replied groggily from under the beat up old comforter that I won’t throw away despite the stuffing all being at one end.
“You’re god is always a foot away from you,” she sighed then slammed the bedroom door behind her.
It took me a few minutes to realize she was talking about beer. And damn if she wasn’t right. I guess that’s why I loved her, despite the Jesus thing, as I’d come to refer to it. When we met, she didn’t talk about God. She didn’t go to church. Instead, she went to bars. Listened to offensive music. Got tattoos and drank an awful lot.
Now? She went to church. On Tuesdays for lessons. On Wednesdays for “Chicks Night.” On Saturday and Sundays for the big show. We weren’t together during the changeover. She’d dumped me for being too attached to my ex-girlfriend.
That sent me reeling. I drank more after that than I had in a while. But it only lasted a little while.
We met up again months later. She convinced me she was sorry, even though I knew better. I was her constant. She knew I’d take her back whenever she came calling. It wasn’t exactly desperation on my part, but it should has hell looked a lot like that to everyone I knew.
Her eyes just did it to me every single time. She knew this. She used it. God damn they were beautiful. Still the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever had the pleasure of looking into for a long period of time. They haunted me when we weren’t together. Which, I’m guessing will be forever soon.
The first time around, the sex was great. We fucked and fucked and fucked. I didn’t fuck like that when I was 20 years old. I can’t say as a teenager, because I never fucked anybody during those prime fucking years.
She brought something out of me that I guess was always there, but no one else had tapped into.
This time, however, she doesn’t believe in premarital sex. So, we don’t. Hell, she will only give me pecks on the cheek. It’s a strange sensation. Knowing this gorgeous woman is lying next to you in bed, a woman who you know fucks like a banshee, loves every little thing about it, yet you know it isn’t going to happen.
Just like me putting a ring on her finger isn’t going to happen. Which is why this is all doomed. Doomed to fail. Like all the rest of my relationships. Except this one is a known quantity. I or she just needs to make it happen. I’m betting on her doing it before me. She’s been engaged four times. She wants me to be No. 5. I wonder what she does with the rings? I’ve never asked. A sign of weakness, for sure.
She comes back in the room.
“I’m sorry,” she says.
I don’t say anything.
“For slamming the door, baby. You know I just get angry when we talk about your drinking.”
“I haven’t drank a single drop in three weeks. There’s nothing in the fridge. I don’t even think about it.”
“But you want to.”
“If I’m not thinking about it, how can I want to?”
“I just know you do. Just like you wish she was here instead of me.”
That just isn’t fair. It’s also not true. It was true. But the one thing I’m going to take out of this relationship is that she doesn’t matter anymore. And by she, I mean the redhead that stole the best years of my life. The one who left me cold. The one who changed the locks because she thought I’d do something stupid. Funny. I never even yelled at her during our relationship. I was scared to death of fighting. A scar from another failed dance. Avoiding conflict does as much damage, if not more, than actual conflict does.
Anyway, the eyes knew they could say anything to me. As long as they looked me deeply. A master manipulator this gal was. I knew it. She knew it. And that was the worst part. When she knows she has the power, she uses it. Keeping her guessing was the right thing to do. And it was us until four months in. Then I told her. And I remember the smile that came across her face. She had me.
Just like she has me now.
Until she’s done.