Monday, April 28, 2014

Wade Boggs, Stan Musial or Joe DiMaggio?

“It’s time!” a voice inside my head yells.
I try to figure out if it’s Michael Buffer’s kid brother, the guy your event gets when it wants a cool introduction, but has a budget of a movie that would have Sid Haig in it in the 1970s, not in the 2000s when Tarantino wannabes made him cool again. Sort of.
Anyway, I sit here every night wondering when the first tooth is going to just fall out. I’ve been thinking about that for over three decades now. I think about it a lot more than I used to. Mostly because that reality is actually a reality now. It used to be some kind of badge of honor that the chicks dug. “Yeah, I wrecked my bike once, almost lost all my front teeth,” I’d say. “Ooooh, that’s so cool.” or “You’re full of shit.” or maybe they’d say nothing because they were now scared or turned on or just stupid. I really didn’t care because it was rare for me to get into a conversation with a lady.
But seriously, it is time. Time for me to make up my mind. Am I going to say fuck it and do it, or am I going to once again just get by.
Three months and a few days from now, I’m going to be a dad. That shit is starting to get real. It’s no longer off on the horizon. It’s speeding up like the Jeepers Creepers dude. And you either get sewn into the fucking mural or you kill the mother fucker.
How the hell did that go there? I have too many damn stupid things going on in my head.
It’s why I spend money on ebay for Weeble Woobles for the damn kid.
He’s going to be playing Atari 2600 at 3 and it’ll be cool. Until his friends show them their cell phones at 5.
Why the hell does a kid need a smartphone?
Get off my lawn!!!! I will shake my cane, dammit.
I don’t have a smartphone. I’m 43.
Do I want one? Yeah, sometimes it would be nice to find out exactly that fucking restaurant is that you drove 400 miles to go eat at, but can’t find it b/c you don’t have a fucking map.
I used to think I could write a pretty darn good story. Just one story, but a good one. I tried and tried to do it, but never really fully tried.
I’ve watched awful writers I know get books published (usually self-published, but fucking a, someone bought at least one copy). I’ve watched liars and shitheads get great jobs, simply because they don’t mind lying and being shitheads.
And I keep making excuses.
It’s not fun. At least not as much.
I don’t drink anymore. It actually bores me. Unless I’m with friends, but then I’ve got to worry about saying or doing something stupid.
Yesterday, a fuckhead in a giant small penis truck wouldn’t get out of the lane. Finally, I got beside him and I fucking tried to punch the car. At 60 miles per hour.
That’s just dumb.
But funny.
And if you don’t do some of that bi-polaresque shit, you can’t write about it.
Just like Ben Nichols used to say “I can’t write the fake shit.”
Well, he writes fake shit now. I think. I mean, I guess taking it from a book, script or TV show means it ain’t fake, exactly.
Fuck, it’s all fake and it’s all not real.
See, see what happens?
I might just quit my job one day in  August. Just leave. Right before my two-year. Yep that would be a Randy move.
Just like all of them.
Follow your heart, they tell you. But then they don’t do it.
You do, and you end up making less at 43 than you made at 33. And less than just about every, single person you know or knew.
Hell, my dead grandfather probably still makes more money every year than I do.
Is that possible?
Stop with the fucking Jim Gaffigan shit.
It stinks.
Hahahahahahaha.
I used to say I didn’t hate things.
I think that’s true. At least I hope it’s true.
Hate is waste.
Love isn’t, even if some don’t believe it’s enough.
Really, though, it’s everything.
We all figure that out one day. Some  earlier than others, some really late.

Hopefully, some don’t ever figure it out. They either end up being Wade Boggs or Stan Musial. I hope I don’t end  up as Joe DiMaggio.

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